Relationships aren’t here to make us happy!

So… for those of you who don’t know me personally… if there’s a mistake to be made or witnessed in a relationship, I’ve probably done or seen it. Everyone comes to Earth to learn lessons, and mine have often centered around romantic...

What does true love look like?

It’s that time of year…when everyone’s thinking about love! Valentine’s Day is today, and you certainly see evidence of that in stores everywhere. But flowers and candy have little to do with real love. Sure, they are nice to receive as a show...

When there’s good in goodbye

“I regret ever meeting you.” I looked at the text message on my phone and thought ‘Are you fucking kidding me?!’ I couldn’t believe a year and a half later I was even receiving this – never mind the fact that (in my humble opinion)...

A history lesson: on being vulnerable in life and love

“My heart has a history of hurtin’ those who mean the most to me. Before you get to close to me, I think you oughta know. While other hearts are holdin’ on, while other loves are growin’ strong, my heart has a history of letting go.” –My Heart Has a History (Paul...